What’s Up Wednesday Christmas Edition
I’m calling this the Christmas edition since it’s probably the last WUW I’ll be participating in this side of Christmas. Unless something happens worthy of a WUW post next week. But I’m not anticipating that, so let’s stick with the plan and see what happens. What’s Up Wednesday is a blog meme devised by sisters Jaime Morrow and Erin Funk as a way for writer friends to keep in touch. Want to be a part of the fun? Visit their blogs to find out how, and visit other participants on their Linky Lists.
What I’m Reading
I’m currently reading RUNNER by Patrick Lee. It’s a thriller featuring ex-Special Forces Sam Dryden who, while out for a night-time run, comes across a twelve-year old girl who is also running–for her life. He rescues her from her pursuers, but it appears there’s a whole organization hunting her down. Dryden takes her under his wing and risks his own life protecting her while they find out more about the people chasing after her, and about the special ability she acquired while she was being held by them…
This is a fast-paced novel, and the story gets more and more interesting the deeper you go. I’m enjoying it. Definitely R-rated for occasional profanity and sexual situations, though Lee tries not to be salacious in his descriptions, giving just enough information for you to get the idea what’s happening.
What I’m Writing
Aside from the flash fiction (see the previous four Fridays), not much. And that’s okay. This break is helpful.
I have to include a writing goal now? Hmmm… I had an idea for another short story I’ve been kicking around. Maybe I’ll set myself the goal of actually making some notes on it, develop the idea a bit more on paper. See if it could work. Not too ambitious, I know, but I’m supposed to be taking a break.
What Works for Me
Being my own writer. What do I mean by that? I think those of us who write and are seeking publication often look to published writers, and those working in publishing, for guidance on how to be a writer. And what we hear are things like, “You need to write at least 1,000 words a day,” or “If you’re not writing daily you’re not a writer,” or “If you can do something else, do it, because the writer’s life isn’t for wusses.” And there’s some truth to all of these. But we can get hung up thinking that if we don’t live up to this standard in some way, we’re failing.
The thing is there are as many different types of writer as there are writers. And some of those comments mean more to some people than others. If you’re young, and looking to writing as your sole means of making a living, then you probably need to listen to the voices in the previous paragraph. Those who are older, and perhaps have families and good jobs, however, will want different things out of their writing career. It may be a secondary income source, or something they would like to see happen but are fine if they remain unpublished. That doesn’t mean they’re not as dedicated to their writing, or they won’t be as prolific. It just means they go at their own pace, and have a different perspective on the whole life-work-writing balance. I’m definitely in that latter category. I have a good job and a large family. I don’t need to be published to earn a living, though the secondary income would be helpful. I enjoy writing, and get a deep sense of satisfaction when I write a good story. It’s certainly something I’d enjoy spending more time doing–even perhaps doing full-time. I plan to write another novel, and more after that. And hopefully an agent will take an interest, and I’ll become a published author. But my life is already rich and full and enjoyable, so it’s not something I need in that sense.
What Else Is New
Christmas! My favorite time of year. I love the whole atmosphere of Christmas–the music, the decorations, the shorter days, the colder weather, that sense of reflection, nostalgia, and appreciation for life, friends, and family. And, of course, the food! And while Christmas itself isn’t new, every year is a new Christmas. My oldest daughter turned 21 on Monday, so it’s the first year she’ll be able to enjoy an adult beverage if she so chooses. It’ll be my sister-in-law’s first Christmas at their new house, and we’ll be there to celebrate with them. It’s also Sam the Cat’s first Christmas with us–possibly his first Christmas period.
Speaking of Sam, here he is with his preciousssss:
Have a wonderful Christmas, everyone!
I like your point about being your own writer and I fully agree with what you say. I don’t think these points we typically get take in mind that not everyone is a full-time writer. I still want the day job and because I want that, I won’t get to write every day. And I shouldn’t have to feel any less of a writer because I don’t get all those opportunities. I definitely do want to get published although as I’ve gotten older, I don’t feel the rush. And technically I could argue that I’ve already fulfilled that dream of being published because I got a short story out a few years back. But, yeah, I don’t feel rushed anymore and I’d rather have quality than quantity.
I think there’s a lot of writer advise out there that’s designed to encourage and inspire certain writers at particular points along the way. But we’re all different, and we shouldn’t let ourselves be defined by someone else’s vision of what a writer is or should be. Just keep writing and pursuing your goals, I say. 🙂
Agree on setting your own definitions. I’ve never been a write every day person, though I’ve gone stretches. I can also churn out big wordcounts in a single day if needed, and not everyone can do that either. The main take away I remind myself of, is published writers never gave up, and they worked hard and gave up something for the sake of writing (whether that’s TV, some social events, sleep–whatever).
Happy holidays!
Absolutely! Thanks for that, Stephanie. 🙂
A Merry Christmas to you! 😀
My husband read RUNNER and enjoyed it so much, he went out and got the rest of Patrick Lee’s books. I really liked it, too. 🙂
I’m definitely encouraged to read more of Patrick Lee’s work after this.
Runner sounds exactly like something I would like, perhaps minus the R-rating. Enjoy your Christmas! It’s easy for me to forget how magical it’s supposed to be. Thanks for the reminder!
I’d give it an R-rating, though I have read worse profanity and even sexual situations in YA literature. If you enjoy a good thriller, this is one you should check out.
Thanks, Melanie! 🙂
I really like that idea of being your own writer!
Thanks, Kelly. Writers have enough neuroses that just come with the territory. We don’t need the pressures of living up to someone else’s standards to add to that! 🙂
Agreed!
Definitely write for yourself. You’ve got the right idea for sure ^_^
That book sounds awesome. Checking that out for sure 😀 Thanks for the rec.
Merry Christmas, Colin!
Given your liking for James-Bond-action/thriller books, you probably would enjoy RUNNER, Cole. You’re very welcome! 🙂
Thanks–you too! 😀
What a gorgeous kitty! Every writer’s style is different, that’s what sticks with me… regardless of work, family and other commitments, we all find our own path. Comparing yourself to others is poison.
You’re so right Emma, and that’s an important life-lesson. Not that emulation is always a bad thing, but we need to be careful who we pick as our “heroes” and why. If someone has qualities or a work ethic we aspire to, that’s one thing. But we can never travel the exact same path as someone else. We need to learn to take the best of what we see in others and adapt it to our own situation and personality.
And hey, while I’m here… Merry Christmas, Colin! 🙂
And to you, too, Emma! 🙂
I couldn’t agree more – every writer is different! I’m in the “writing as a career” camp, but I know lots of people with different goals and aims. As long as you love writing, it doesn’t matter what pace you work at. Have a great Christmas! 🙂
Thanks, Emma. And all the best to you with your writing endeavors! 🙂
I feel exactly the same way about the Christmas season. I love just about everything about it! (Well, except for the craziness of Christmas shoppers. 0_o) Your What Works For Me section is exactly the reason we started using this heading in WUW. We’re all such different writers with different ways of doing things, so it’s great to share what works for us as individuals. Sometimes it also works for others and sometimes it doesn’t. I kind of love that no one way or bit of advice is “right” exactly. Because goodness knows, I’d be failing miserably if there was a right way of doing it lol.
Hope you and your family have a very Merry Christmas, Colin! 🙂
I know if there was a “right way” to be a writer, I wouldn’t be doing it. You’re right. Thankfully, there’s not. The subjectivity of publishing can be very frustrating at times (“Why don’t you just LOVE my novel??”), but it’s also very freeing to know you just have to write what you love, write it well, and entice others to read it. 🙂
Thanks, Jaime. You too! 😀
I’ve thought a lot about a writer’s journey and about mine in particular and came to the conclusion that I needed to do it my way, not necessarily the “right way.” So I loved what you said about being you’re own writer.
Have a Merry Christmas! 🙂
Thanks, Melanie. I’m glad what I said was affirming for you. I think it’s the only way to keep writing and stay sane, what with all the best-intentioned advice floating around.
You and your family have a great Christmas too! 🙂
Hah, one of my cats did something similar with a bag of food this week. My husband and I buy cheaper food for the neighborhood strays and when I brought it home from the grocery store, my cat went wild for it. He’s a big boy, so he was actually dragging it across the floor with his teeth. Very dog like 🙂
Have a wonderful Christmas!
We have a couple of “outdoor” cats that sort of came with the house. We usually feed them the same food as the “indoor” cats, but I like the idea of buying a big bag of cheaper food for them. I’m sure they’re not as fussy, and they can always supplement it with something fresh… :\
I hope you and yours have a wonderful Christmas too, Jennifer! 🙂